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827Aug · 07-25-2008, 10:00 AM

I know how you feel; I'm right there with you. You need to check with a lawyer before you leave. Make sure you have all of your ducks in a row before exiting. That's hard to do--I know!

That's interesting you're getting "I'm trying" too. That must be a universal guy line! Every time I get that line, I have to ask, "What exactly are you trying to do? Are you trying to finish destroying this marriage? Are you trying to be more descret with your dates?" I' m just sick of it!

At least in your case, you have the money. I could be fighting over alimony for years!

My new counselor has helped me to see one thing though. When a man is having an affair, it makes him feel good. The wife ,on the other hand, is the voice of reality and responsibility. At least this is how it is in my case. In his mind the mistress is good and the wife is bad. Therefore, the counselor told me not to even try reasoning with him. She said it is a complete waste of time and I'm only hurting myself more.

Good luck and keep us posted!

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827Aug Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Southern USA Posts: 258	Re: He's Cheating...so now what? I know how you feel; I'm right there with you. You need to check with a lawyer before you leave. Make sure you have all of your ducks in a row before exiting. That's hard to do--I know! That's interesting you're getting "I'm trying" too. That must be a universal guy line! Every time I get that line, I have to ask, "What exactly are you trying to do? Are you trying to finish destroying this marriage? Are you trying to be more descret with your dates?" I' m just sick of it! At least in your case, you have the money. I could be fighting over alimony for years! My new counselor has helped me to see one thing though. When a man is having an affair, it makes him feel good. The wife ,on the other hand, is the voice of reality and responsibility. At least this is how it is in my case. In his mind the mistress is good and the wife is bad. Therefore, the counselor told me not to even try reasoning with him. She said it is a complete waste of time and I'm only hurting myself more. Good luck and keep us posted!