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Amplexor · 07-25-2008, 10:26 AM

This is absolutely not normal or what should be happening in any relationship. He has withdrawn, he doesn’t provide you with emotional support and he is spending way too much time chatting with other women when he should be concentrating on the one who should be first on his list. Communication of your concerns and how he hurts you is the first thing you need to do. If he is missing something in the relationship that he gets from his “chats” discuss it and find ways you can both improve in those areas. And when he does complement you or says something that makes you feel good, let him know how much you appreciate it. Have you discussed professional counseling? Do you regularly have time alone as a couple? You need time together to reconnect. You have work to do as a couple, don’t wait. Start this weekend. Best of luck.

07-25-2008, 10:26 AM	#5 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 896	Re: Is this normal...please help!!! This is absolutely not normal or what should be happening in any relationship. He has withdrawn, he doesn’t provide you with emotional support and he is spending way too much time chatting with other women when he should be concentrating on the one who should be first on his list. Communication of your concerns and how he hurts you is the first thing you need to do. If he is missing something in the relationship that he gets from his “chats” discuss it and find ways you can both improve in those areas. And when he does complement you or says something that makes you feel good, let him know how much you appreciate it. Have you discussed professional counseling? Do you regularly have time alone as a couple? You need time together to reconnect. You have work to do as a couple, don’t wait. Start this weekend. Best of luck. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.