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Alexandra · 01-18-2010, 09:30 PM

I have some advice, and I'll try to take some time to search out some resources.

I feel for your wife, really I do. This is a huge change for her and it seems to be taking a physical toll as well as a mental. I get that it bothers you a bit, since she married you not them.

One question. What if it doesn't work out with your job? Then your wife is also miserable and you've lost the benefit of a great job, where will you be? Is it all worth it?

How about searching actively for a support system in the new place - church, clubs, etc.? Also technology tools like Facebook, Twitter and email are wonderful for keeping in contact. Give her as many of these tools as you can to keep her connected to home.

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Alexandra Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: West coast Posts: 176	Re: Any resources on this? I have some advice, and I'll try to take some time to search out some resources. I feel for your wife, really I do. This is a huge change for her and it seems to be taking a physical toll as well as a mental. I get that it bothers you a bit, since she married you not them. One question. What if it doesn't work out with your job? Then your wife is also miserable and you've lost the benefit of a great job, where will you be? Is it all worth it? How about searching actively for a support system in the new place - church, clubs, etc.? Also technology tools like Facebook, Twitter and email are wonderful for keeping in contact. Give her as many of these tools as you can to keep her connected to home. __________________ Save your marriage & avoid divorce. If there is HOPE, there is a WAY - Relationship Advice Last edited by Alexandra; 01-23-2010 at 12:54 PM.