justean

well u made a start. you told him, so you no longer have that guilt . my hubby actually slept with someone, so your actions are to be honest, simple mistakes of life.
who doesnt.
i went through the same thing, ok i have insecure times and trust is big, but u r trying and willing to make amends and u have prmised yourslf that u wont put yourslf in that situation again.
i actually dont think yopu can ask n e more of yourself.
your both keeping in touch with eachother, so your not totally out of touch.
just keep things simple, your both willing to give it a go.
its just time now . your key here, is him forgiving you. he wont forget. but if he can forgive you and see you for the real person you are. then you can both move on from this in a positive way.
my hubby realised he did not want to lose his wife or his family.
it was unfortunately a big quest that our marriage took a huge hit with consequences that could have easily have put our marriage in jeopardy.
but were moving forward - we still have a future.
if he has high hopes , thats good.
keep fightin for wht u want. just stay patient.