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Amplexor · 07-25-2008, 02:25 PM

Both explanations are plausible. He may be seeing someone or is trying to make you jealous or hurt you. Although you have agreed to the separation don’t expect there to not be pain for either of you as the other begins to separate and look for someone new in their life. It is normal to feel this way. That doesn’t make it any easier however. Letting go is hard and anytime a marriage fails there will be pain. All I can say is keep your sprits up as best you can while you fully realize it is over. Hard to do I know. Concentrate on your self and your needs. Keep busy with hobbies or work. Go out with friends and spend as little time around him as you can. If he is just trying to hurt you shoe him you are just fine and don’t need him. Don’t jump into other relationships until you are sure you are ready. Take care.

07-25-2008, 02:25 PM	#2 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 896	Re: It's hurting me now Both explanations are plausible. He may be seeing someone or is trying to make you jealous or hurt you. Although you have agreed to the separation don’t expect there to not be pain for either of you as the other begins to separate and look for someone new in their life. It is normal to feel this way. That doesn’t make it any easier however. Letting go is hard and anytime a marriage fails there will be pain. All I can say is keep your sprits up as best you can while you fully realize it is over. Hard to do I know. Concentrate on your self and your needs. Keep busy with hobbies or work. Go out with friends and spend as little time around him as you can. If he is just trying to hurt you shoe him you are just fine and don’t need him. Don’t jump into other relationships until you are sure you are ready. Take care. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.