| | Re: husband had a one night stand
atholk. i can see what your getting at but that gives him no excuse. we married twice both in churches of god. He promised me his fidelity and betrayed that. Just because its in a mans raw nature doesnt mean he has to accept it. he should love me, our child and our marriage enough to say NO. My wifes offers me the sex i need and the love that goes with it. shove your naked body in someone elses lap who isnt marrried.
I dont know about other women but when i was single the first thing i looked at in a guy i liked was a wedding ring. that to me signaled a no go area. My H doesnt take his ring off ever, so i find it hard to believe this women didnt notice the wedding ring.
Thanks to everyone for your kinds words. Unfortunately i have to let him in the same bed with me sooner than i would have liked as we are traveling to my mothers home next week and my family dont know of our problems. They cant know, my mother and i both find it very hard to trust anyway. my mother was betrayed many times by my father which in turn gave me a horrible look on men.
Its strange how normal things are. we had to go to the store for food. its just odd, i feel like something drastic is going to happen. Does that make sense?
we have talked alot about it and he is being very patient giving me the space i need etc. and he lietens and answrs my questions even if i repeat my self. we are both looking forward to our vacation next week i think we need time away.