gobroncos6

Oh my. I'm new here on the forums and find this thread fascinating! (Been married 7 years btw, first & only hubby). I was just reading along, nodding my head and agreeing with Bigbadwolf until he mentioned spanking! I would laugh if my husband did that to me! I don't know if it would do anything for me sexually or not, but it sounds hilarious.

I do agree with a man needing to be a man--in the bed and elsewhere. Very important. I think it's part of why a man being laid off work is hard, very demoralizing for a man.

I'm not sure about your "100% policy". I guess my H would like never being rejected, but he says he doesn't like having to be the one to ask every time. Sometimes he wants me to initiate, but maybe it's because of the rejection part. I don't reject him a lot but hello--occasionally! I won't just jump cuz he says jump.

Great post. Will read more replies later!
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