Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - He's been flirting with my friend... how do I address this?

Alexandra · 01-20-2010, 04:08 PM

Steer clear of accusing him of cheating, especially after the past A. I know you feel you have reason, but it's just not going to help the situation here.

Good move on talking to your friend. She seems to understand and is being respectful of your feelings. Now it's time to make sure that your H will do the same. Do follow the advice above and talk calmly to him, concentrating on your feelings about it, not necessarily his actions.

Ask him to stop doing this - absolutely. Ask him to stop hanging about when your friend is over (he can do something else can't he?). Touching her and tickling her is NOT a good thing. Try and work out some boundaries and help him to understand how this hurts you.

01-20-2010, 04:08 PM	#5 (permalink)
Alexandra Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: West coast Posts: 176	Re: He's been flirting with my friend... how do I address this? Steer clear of accusing him of cheating, especially after the past A. I know you feel you have reason, but it's just not going to help the situation here. Good move on talking to your friend. She seems to understand and is being respectful of your feelings. Now it's time to make sure that your H will do the same. Do follow the advice above and talk calmly to him, concentrating on your feelings about it, not necessarily his actions. Ask him to stop doing this - absolutely. Ask him to stop hanging about when your friend is over (he can do something else can't he?). Touching her and tickling her is NOT a good thing. Try and work out some boundaries and help him to understand how this hurts you. __________________ Save your marriage & avoid divorce. If there is HOPE, there is a WAY - Relationship Advice Last edited by Alexandra; 01-23-2010 at 12:08 PM.