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kjones2411 · 07-26-2008, 02:25 AM

My husband is from florida and whenever he flies home, i am always worried he will hang out or get into contact with his ex. she has a daughter that he helped raise for two years and is very attached to the daughter.

a few weeks ago, he flew home and i couldnt go (bad mistake). he hung out with her. when he came home he told me he wasnt sure if he loved me as much anymore and just wasnt sure about us. so we spent time apart to think about things. then we started hanging out and acting like things were back to normal to try that. they a few days ago i found messages to and from her say how much they loved each other and coulnt wait to spend the rest of their lives together, how happy they were and how they were the best things that happened to each other. i confronted him and now he is trying to decide what to do.

any suggestions on what i should do? i truely want to be with him and i really want us to work.

what is even worse, is we have a 7 week old baby girl and he is messing up his own family for another women and someone elses baby.

oh and on top of it, she is not a good person. she left him to marry someone else. then after she got married, had a boyfriend ontop of that. she is not trustworthy and will only hurt him.

HELP PLEASE..ANY SUGGESTIONS AND COMMENTS ARE HELPFUL.

07-26-2008, 02:25 AM	#1 (permalink)
kjones2411 Registered User Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 2	Ex issues My husband is from florida and whenever he flies home, i am always worried he will hang out or get into contact with his ex. she has a daughter that he helped raise for two years and is very attached to the daughter. a few weeks ago, he flew home and i couldnt go (bad mistake). he hung out with her. when he came home he told me he wasnt sure if he loved me as much anymore and just wasnt sure about us. so we spent time apart to think about things. then we started hanging out and acting like things were back to normal to try that. they a few days ago i found messages to and from her say how much they loved each other and coulnt wait to spend the rest of their lives together, how happy they were and how they were the best things that happened to each other. i confronted him and now he is trying to decide what to do. any suggestions on what i should do? i truely want to be with him and i really want us to work. what is even worse, is we have a 7 week old baby girl and he is messing up his own family for another women and someone elses baby. oh and on top of it, she is not a good person. she left him to marry someone else. then after she got married, had a boyfriend ontop of that. she is not trustworthy and will only hurt him. HELP PLEASE..ANY SUGGESTIONS AND COMMENTS ARE HELPFUL.