Thread: Ex issues
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Old 07-26-2008, 03:13 AM   #2 (permalink)
michzz
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Originally Posted by kjones2411 View Post
My husband is from florida and whenever he flies home, i am always worried he will hang out or get into contact with his ex. she has a daughter that he helped raise for two years and is very attached to the daughter.

a few weeks ago, he flew home and i couldnt go (bad mistake). he hung out with her. when he came home he told me he wasnt sure if he loved me as much anymore and just wasnt sure about us. so we spent time apart to think about things. then we started hanging out and acting like things were back to normal to try that. they a few days ago i found messages to and from her say how much they loved each other and coulnt wait to spend the rest of their lives together, how happy they were and how they were the best things that happened to each other. i confronted him and now he is trying to decide what to do.

any suggestions on what i should do? i truely want to be with him and i really want us to work.

what is even worse, is we have a 7 week old baby girl and he is messing up his own family for another women and someone elses baby.

oh and on top of it, she is not a good person. she left him to marry someone else. then after she got married, had a boyfriend ontop of that. she is not trustworthy and will only hurt him.

HELP PLEASE..ANY SUGGESTIONS AND COMMENTS ARE HELPFUL.
I think you ought to take steps to protect you and your new baby from his recklessness.

The crappy way you see that ex who is now current again is how you ought to be seeing him as well.

He is not a victim of that other person. He willingly cheated with her while you have a newborn with him.

He likely has been intimate with her many more times than what you discovered.

Do you really want him? Why?

he treats you with no respect.

I am sorry to be blunt.

Please seek legal and emotional support.

You need it.
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