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justean · 07-26-2008, 06:56 AM

so he is not in actual contact with her all the time. but if they are sending eachother messages and you have seen for yourself these messages. then they are real. but being so far away can also fuel the fire for desire. its because you go into a fantasy world.
i think you should put your foot down.
but i have seen this within my own family. you might have to let him go. its just ashame he cant see the forest for the trees.
but how many men do.
i feel for your situation. this happened to a cousin of mine and a friend, very similar.
they went through alot.
i know you dont want to lose him, but you might have to consider giving him the ultimatum and putting the facts you have said here on your thread to him again, just to remind him.
like how she treated him b 4 and those past situations.
ok he is treating you no different , because he has become blinded.

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justean Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: south wales. uk Posts: 736	Re: Ex issues so he is not in actual contact with her all the time. but if they are sending eachother messages and you have seen for yourself these messages. then they are real. but being so far away can also fuel the fire for desire. its because you go into a fantasy world. i think you should put your foot down. but i have seen this within my own family. you might have to let him go. its just ashame he cant see the forest for the trees. but how many men do. i feel for your situation. this happened to a cousin of mine and a friend, very similar. they went through alot. i know you dont want to lose him, but you might have to consider giving him the ultimatum and putting the facts you have said here on your thread to him again, just to remind him. like how she treated him b 4 and those past situations. ok he is treating you no different , because he has become blinded.