Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Would you sleep in a separate bed to get a good night's sleep?

jessi · 01-21-2010, 05:54 PM

I think if you had a discussion about the reasons the other was sleeping in another bed, example snoring......then it might be alright.
You could start together then one could move to the spare room
Right now a lot of houses are being built with 2 master suites, it's a new trend........
Or you could plan nights where you visited the other.
I think if the relationship is in a bit of trouble it's not a good idea, the closeness of a couple is important when the rest isn't working.
It's to easy to totally disconnect without that closeness.
I guess another reason would be shift work stuff where one disrupts the others sleep......again as long as visiting time is worked into the plan.....
I always loved snuggling and touching, it helps me fall asleep.
But I've also moved to the spare room to avoid the fog horn sound that came out of my husband at times........

01-21-2010, 05:54 PM	#2 (permalink)
jessi Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: canada Posts: 796	Re: Would you sleep in a separate bed to get a good night's sleep? I think if you had a discussion about the reasons the other was sleeping in another bed, example snoring......then it might be alright. You could start together then one could move to the spare room Right now a lot of houses are being built with 2 master suites, it's a new trend........ Or you could plan nights where you visited the other. I think if the relationship is in a bit of trouble it's not a good idea, the closeness of a couple is important when the rest isn't working. It's to easy to totally disconnect without that closeness. I guess another reason would be shift work stuff where one disrupts the others sleep......again as long as visiting time is worked into the plan..... I always loved snuggling and touching, it helps me fall asleep. But I've also moved to the spare room to avoid the fog horn sound that came out of my husband at times........