nidal

Hi ..

It is difficult to answer ur question how many times ... as much as u can .. as much u love him..I know one actress , she spent all her money to recover her husband from addiction (he was also actor )..
and in the end they got divorced ... she love him and he love her ... but the romantic love was destroyed by the addiction and its consequences .
Love is four letter word spelled T...I....M....E
Love is far more than strong emotions, roses and sexual desire.
Love is actions (+) and altruism (++) ...but the hard question which many people failed to answer... is..
"Whom really deserve this love.." ?????????????
is he the person we just fall in love with (Romantic)...
or may be a normal guy we do not know yet ... that guy (respect us and appreciate us (+) and sacrifice for us(++) )!!!
Since you r realistic (now) ...(because before marriage you did not look really about the truth .. or u might find some things u do not like... but u said ..it is not big deal .. and now it became a very big deal ...like if he was cheating before marriage ... or u noticed his absence ..or his mood was sometimes strange )..

any how .. it is late now to look back .. but if you sure you love him and you can support him ..please try to help him ...I guess he has a genuine problem which u do not know ... may be his son or his sister know ...that problem leaded him to the addiction court .. this problem may be regarding his early childhood days ...or may be regarding his ex-wife or some thing else... sometimes this people (addicts) use the addiction as an escape (let go) from their deep real problems which the people around them do not realize..
Continue....