Re: Is it my hormones or my marriage?
He is older than u ? and he has son ? and his family against him ? all this signs that he is careless since it was long experience with addiction... and you want him to leave it like nothing... it is difficult..
u see, ur family has breast cancer history .. but he did not object u and ask you to change ur family history .. (simply u can not)...also for him (he can not as easy as u imagine)...
u need a very hard work and encouragement.. I do not know if there is special programs that can treat him continuously (in hospital) until he become a normal person. that will take a year or more by guess ...
SOME TIMES WE NEED OTHERS TO CHANGE ... BUT ACTUALLY WE NEED TO LOOK FROM THEIR POINT OF VIEW ..
may be he cheated u because he is afraid to loose u ?
may be bacause he is addict ?
may be because he want to show you that he is competent ?
so ...
try to be positive little bit.
wish u the best
nidal
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