justean

i agree with both points from the above and both are very valid.
if she is moving on, its best to not become a room mate.
ok its with a woman , but correctly said, she is cheating on you. why dont you consider not taking her our every weekend. there is only so much you can give and only so much you can take.
i think you need to back of from giving her attention.
i do believe she is confused about her sexuality. but if this girl has told her she loves her and there has been no sex, she might push further. if persistent enough.
i met a girl in university. her hubby had just gone to america and i ws getin divorced. but my situation was for different reasons, we did a few things, but not all the way.
i actually think alot of women are bi-curious. its just how far you go.
instead of just stopping the attention.
when you see her tell her you are allowing her, her space. but instill your rules. you wont be a porn here. you wil not be lied to, you are going to stop pay attention for whatever reason you choose.
this is only one way. but by stopping the attention.
she can actually see what this girl gives her. it might end up being nothing.
i stil fantasise about my ideal woman and recently when my hubby and i split , i got of with a mate ( female - lesbian) . but again its just curiosity that wil go no where. yes we still talk and when i go out she works in the bar i go to. but thats it. my mate thinks im sexy and calls me that, she even tells my brothers to leave us alone, but she would still do no harm.
but i come back to my hubby.
because i enjoy what a man can give in the bedroom.
you might be lucky and try and get her to feel the same.
but i suggest you pull away - to make her think.
who is also important and should be number 1 priority is your son.
he needs to know where he stands. there sounds like a lot of tooing and frowing between you both.