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827Aug · 07-27-2008, 10:30 PM

Hi ub69me!

Sorry you and the kids are having to go thru this. I wished I knew what to tell you to make the situation better.

Do you suspect your wife was having a relationship with someone before her little vacation? My husband's behavior was similar in some ways after his vacation in 2007. I'm now starting to understand more. When a person has an affair (gay or straight), they distance themselves (by varying degrees) from their spouse. In addition, they tend to magnify their spouse's tiny faults or flaws. Your wife is definitely trying to distance herself from you. I don't understand why she is hurting the children though. For that reason, I would say you and the children should get counseling. They don't need to be put in the spot they are currently in--and it appears your wife wouldn't have it any other way.

Good luck with your situation!

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827Aug Moderator Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Southern USA Posts: 3,989	Re: Wife left me and the kids Hi ub69me! Sorry you and the kids are having to go thru this. I wished I knew what to tell you to make the situation better. Do you suspect your wife was having a relationship with someone before her little vacation? My husband's behavior was similar in some ways after his vacation in 2007. I'm now starting to understand more. When a person has an affair (gay or straight), they distance themselves (by varying degrees) from their spouse. In addition, they tend to magnify their spouse's tiny faults or flaws. Your wife is definitely trying to distance herself from you. I don't understand why she is hurting the children though. For that reason, I would say you and the children should get counseling. They don't need to be put in the spot they are currently in--and it appears your wife wouldn't have it any other way. Good luck with your situation!