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Bad Guy · 07-28-2008, 01:45 AM

Update...This is pretty bad update for me to share. I called my wife on friday to talk to her that I'm coming home and that nothing is getting resolved being separated. So, I pack up my things and go home. My wife works 2nd shift so she doesn't get home till about 11:45pm. I wait for her to come home and she doesn't get in till after 12:30. Out of character to come home that late. No big deal, I blow it off.

She comes home and says she's not staying long because she's going up north camping with her family and join my 2 sons who are already up there and come back sunday. I knew about this trip so no surprise, but with it being late I thought she would just go to bed and leave in the morning.

We talk about things for awhile and it gets to 2pm and she is done packing and is addament that she wants to go now to drive 2 hours away to the camping site. So, I'm sad because I thought we could use this weekend to work on things.

So leaves and I ask her to txt me when she got there to let me know she made it ok. I fall asleep and check my phone and no txt. I'm worried so I txt her and see if she was ok and she responds, "yeah, I'm fine."

During the weekend I clean around the house, read books I have about marriage eager for her and the kids to come home. Sunday comes around and I txt her with no response. Through out the day I txt her and call her with nothing. 5pm rolls around. I'm worried now so I call her mom who is there camping with the whole family and ask her is my wife there and is she ok. She tells me she hasn't seen her all weekend and was expecting her to come. Now, I'm shocked! Her mom calls her to find out what's going on. I call her back and she tells me she's fine, but my wife wouldn't tell her where she is? Then my wife txt me finally and says, "What the f... do you want?" I'm like what is going on? I call her and she won't answer the phone she will only txt me. I ask where are you what's going on? She responds with "Leave me the f... alone and leave my mom out of it!"

At this point, I'm shocked and stunned because this is so out of character for her to do this. She lied to me about camping and she won't tell me anything about where she is or what she's doing? This is night #3 she is away for and everything you can think of is racing through my head. She stopped responding to my txt now. So, I sit here hurt, shocked, disbelief, just in pain. She turned completely heartless. Nothing bad happened lately for this? I just told her I was through with the separation and was coming home?

Where do I go from here? I lost all trust. She has to be with another man. She doesn't have any friends except for one that I know of for her to go to like this? Right now I'm taking this as marriage over. What else is there now? Going in to see lawyer tomorrow. What does anyone think of this? And as of right now no word at all from her still as to what is going on?

07-28-2008, 01:45 AM	#34 (permalink)
Bad Guy Registered User Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Michigan Posts: 17	Re: Trying to keep my marriage together! Update...This is pretty bad update for me to share. I called my wife on friday to talk to her that I'm coming home and that nothing is getting resolved being separated. So, I pack up my things and go home. My wife works 2nd shift so she doesn't get home till about 11:45pm. I wait for her to come home and she doesn't get in till after 12:30. Out of character to come home that late. No big deal, I blow it off. She comes home and says she's not staying long because she's going up north camping with her family and join my 2 sons who are already up there and come back sunday. I knew about this trip so no surprise, but with it being late I thought she would just go to bed and leave in the morning. We talk about things for awhile and it gets to 2pm and she is done packing and is addament that she wants to go now to drive 2 hours away to the camping site. So, I'm sad because I thought we could use this weekend to work on things. So leaves and I ask her to txt me when she got there to let me know she made it ok. I fall asleep and check my phone and no txt. I'm worried so I txt her and see if she was ok and she responds, "yeah, I'm fine." During the weekend I clean around the house, read books I have about marriage eager for her and the kids to come home. Sunday comes around and I txt her with no response. Through out the day I txt her and call her with nothing. 5pm rolls around. I'm worried now so I call her mom who is there camping with the whole family and ask her is my wife there and is she ok. She tells me she hasn't seen her all weekend and was expecting her to come. Now, I'm shocked! Her mom calls her to find out what's going on. I call her back and she tells me she's fine, but my wife wouldn't tell her where she is? Then my wife txt me finally and says, "What the f... do you want?" I'm like what is going on? I call her and she won't answer the phone she will only txt me. I ask where are you what's going on? She responds with "Leave me the f... alone and leave my mom out of it!" At this point, I'm shocked and stunned because this is so out of character for her to do this. She lied to me about camping and she won't tell me anything about where she is or what she's doing? This is night #3 she is away for and everything you can think of is racing through my head. She stopped responding to my txt now. So, I sit here hurt, shocked, disbelief, just in pain. She turned completely heartless. Nothing bad happened lately for this? I just told her I was through with the separation and was coming home? Where do I go from here? I lost all trust. She has to be with another man. She doesn't have any friends except for one that I know of for her to go to like this? Right now I'm taking this as marriage over. What else is there now? Going in to see lawyer tomorrow. What does anyone think of this? And as of right now no word at all from her still as to what is going on? __________________ *Only if I could go back in time!* Last edited by Bad Guy; 07-28-2008 at 01:50 AM.