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Originally Posted by AZMOMOFTWO
I don't think he is doing a single thing to fix the relationship but does not want to end it...
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I completely know how you feel. My husband has screwed up royally in the past. He thinks once things are fine with him that all should be fine and i should just drop all the pain he's caused. He gets angry if i bring up his past indiscretions. On top of that, he does nothing to help the relationship. I, on the other hand, have gone to counseling, bought books, read discussion forums, talk to friends and family, and I try to communicate. I had to pull teeth just to get him to see a counselor, and then he only went for a couple sessions. Some days he really does show improvement and then some days i just want to leave. Its really aggravating on a day to day basis.
I can empathize with the 'friend' situation. I've had a few of them myself in my short three years of marriage. Sometimes i feel guilty about it, but then i remember how aloof my husband is about the pain he's caused me and I feel justified. Probably not real mature, but c'est la vive.
-lj