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ljtseng · 07-28-2008, 05:54 AM

When i first found my husbands online dating accounts i demanded he delete them and never go back. i thought by controlling this one action things would get better. ya, he never did go back to that site, or do that particular thing again, but I kept finding other things. as long as i kept trying to control the thing he was doing, i was completely missing the point of what was going on between us.

The thing that helped me the most was doing a lot of reading about boundaries. Its been two years now and one hell of a painful ride. And even though I dont know if he's getting better, I am.

07-28-2008, 05:54 AM	#4 (permalink)
ljtseng Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 951	Re: Wife pretending to be someone else online When i first found my husbands online dating accounts i demanded he delete them and never go back. i thought by controlling this one action things would get better. ya, he never did go back to that site, or do that particular thing again, but I kept finding other things. as long as i kept trying to control the thing he was doing, i was completely missing the point of what was going on between us. The thing that helped me the most was doing a lot of reading about boundaries. Its been two years now and one hell of a painful ride. And even though I dont know if he's getting better, I am.