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Old 07-28-2008, 09:59 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Default Re: Pushing too hard...drove him away

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Try reading Dobson’s Love must be Tough for some insight and inspiration on not pushing too hard. He concepts are rather radical but in many cases I can see how they could help. Some were helpful to me last summer as our marriage was on the verge of collapse. Also, do not start in a new relationship until you have given your marriage every chance. It would be unfair to all parties involved. You are correct that you are vulnerable and this other guy might be the knight in shining armor. He could also be a huge mistake. If the marriage fails still give yourself the proper amount of time to get your emotions and life under control before you embark on a new relationship. Rebounds rarely work out. Best of luck.
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