Re: Wife says she is gay
Just because she didn't express to you that she is gay does not mean that this is a sudden realization by her, or that it is a bizarre mental issue with her.
It very well could be that she has hidden this part of her, unexpressed, from everyone.
Then she may have met someone who allowed her to express it.
Yes, she has messed up and her hidden part of her is a shock to you and to your kids.
Do what you can to protect yourself and your kids but also try to see if you can accept her as she is, not as you want her to be.
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