Re: I think I may have been stupid/blind
Hi ...
why he share a room with this bad women ! where is her hubby ?
she has no values and ethics ? what shall two sleep in the same room do at night ? sure : sex affairs ....
I'm sorry to tell you that your husband is not saying the truth.
he is cheating ...and he is also trying to make you aware of his illegal relationship ...?
this is the bad of women working with men ... many troubles same to this happening daily each hour and minute !!!
I do not know how he can sleep in the same room ? how he did not think about your feelings and jealousy ? he did not care much about you ? otherwise he would not told you that !!!
your husband as I'm sure is in love relation with that deceiving woman ...may be romantic love or sexual attraction ....
well you did not told me how long u been married ? how strong and happy are your marriage ? is there any conflicts between u 2 ?
how did u treat him and vise versa ?
this information is very helpful to analyse ur problem .
for the picture u found : may be that woman took that picture as a signal she want to make you aware for her relation with ur husband!!!
or if ur husband took that picture ... he may be want to make u so jealous about him ... may be he want to bring ur attention !!
in ur confront ... you should mention that it is not his rights or her rights to do so (sleep in one room ... even taking pictures )... and it is ur right to ask him to change his section or change his job even ... that will not solve the problem .. but that will sound as strong communication for asking ur rights as a loyal wife and loyal partner.
as I guess ... that woman has an emotional\sexual problem with her husband and she tried to take the balance or to escape from the reality by infidelity with some one smart and next to her office ... and she succeded tgill now.
please tell me what is ur hubby response when u confront him .
GOOD LUCK
Nidal
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