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Amplexor · 07-29-2008, 10:09 AM

You are correct he is going over the line here. He has stated a couple of times that he does not understand so further communication is in order. Maybe a better approach to get your point across is to not reprimand him for how he acts around other women but to focus more on how his behavior makes you feel. How it hurts you. If he has empathy for you that will likely make more of an impact. Since his actions take place while he is drinking his memory of the events may be flawed. The next time you go out with friends set the boundaries with him up front and let him know early on when he starts to push those boundaries. Also if these women are friends of yours let them know his behavior bothers you and ask them for their help in policing it. Flirting is fine, this behavior is not.

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Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 885	Re: Okay guys I need some advice - flirty husband You are correct he is going over the line here. He has stated a couple of times that he does not understand so further communication is in order. Maybe a better approach to get your point across is to not reprimand him for how he acts around other women but to focus more on how his behavior makes you feel. How it hurts you. If he has empathy for you that will likely make more of an impact. Since his actions take place while he is drinking his memory of the events may be flawed. The next time you go out with friends set the boundaries with him up front and let him know early on when he starts to push those boundaries. Also if these women are friends of yours let them know his behavior bothers you and ask them for their help in policing it. Flirting is fine, this behavior is not. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.