dscowgirl

Your situation is similar to mine. We have been apart now for 3 months. He has a new girl but everyone we know says its a fling, he talks to her bad and is basically using her for a free ride to play. A family member told me us as women want to talk and rationalize everything and tell them how we feel. Guys don't think like that. Give him his space, dont call him for a while. Make him miss you. Deep down in their hearts they know who was true and who really cares for them. In my situation my husband blamed our problems on a bunch of little things, it was a screen to cover his own faults that led to an affair. Everyone on here has told me to focus on myself, be with close friends and family. It has been the hardest thing to not talk to him or even text him. I honestly feel that these guys know our true feelings, they just have to come to their senses on what may be fun isn't really what they want. Not sure if this helps but it helps to talk to others...