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Originally Posted by KC10Chief
Honestly, they are the only reason I am still married. Had I not had kids, I wouldn't have gotten married in the first place. I don't want them to grow up in a broken home and I would hate the thought of not being able to see them every night.
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You sound like a very good guy who has done well for his family. But it sounds like you never loved your wife. I'm wondering if your wife ever really loved you, and if she did, if she's now realizing that you never loved her.
I also suffer from lack of motivation. My husband works really hard at a job he loves. I dont always get laundry done, I've been fired and quit jobs, struggle with school, and am not always the person or the wife i wish i could be.
Your wife's emotional explosions tell me something is very wrong. she's really angry. No one likes to be a sloth and get nothing done all day. I know from personal experience. I dont like it when i've failed myself or my husband. I get angry at myself and frustrated that i cant do any better.
When im going through periods that my motivation is at an all time low, I tell my husband. i apologize and let him know i'll try harder. But if i dont trust my husband, if i dont think he loves me, i get angry, i lash out, and i withdraw.
Honestly i find it odd that you would think to divorce your wife over something as trivial as the laundry not getting done, or cat hair on clothes. I feel sorry for you wife because i know how she must feel. She's sounds miserable, frustrated, and lonely.