Re: First timer... Just looking for advice
Welcome! Its a great place for advice, and good to work out your thoughts too.
First if you are having behavior problems when you drink, you should first cut that out of your diet. I like to drink, and I make sure that I don't drink too much. Everyone acts differently when drinking. If both of you argue when drinking, don't drink, or just have a couple. If you are looking to work out long term you should consider going to a counselor while you are still on good standing. You will be able to work out how you communicate. I am sure as you read more here you will see that issue as a common problem. It is an issue in my marriage that we are working on. Best of luck!
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