ljtseng

I completely empathize with your situation. The problem is he's always been this way and he doesn't see anything wrong with it. Its hard to enough to change a behavior in someone who actually wants to change. I think you need to sit down with him and find out if this is something he is seriously willing to work on and if not, you have to ask yourself if you would be ok with this the rest of your life. If not, and you decide to go your separate ways, try not to feel defeated. You learned something about yourself and what you want from a man. That's the important part.