Re: First timer... Just looking for advice
i mean to say he has a problem of communication .
It is normal to have conflicts (even it is healthy fact for good marriages) ... but the real problem is hoe to treat the conflicts ?
many people stayed for 30 years in marriage without being able to resolve their conflicts in a positive way ...because every one want to be the right and the other is wrong ...!
will then no conflict will be solved because no one is wrong .
Conflicts teach us about the others personality .. for example, if you asked him to visit your family and he said I like to stay at home in the week end ..... you lean that he do not like to have more social contacts or he is introvert ...if he came back from his work angry and u asked him ..what is wrong ? he became to annoyed and say bad words to you ...then you will learn that he do not like to talk when he has a problem or when he is angry ... you may talk to him after an hour or so ...
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