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justean · 07-29-2008, 04:48 PM

what do you want a life so empty , if your living separate lives , what difference does it make n e way.
ok you love him. but sometimes you have to be strong and accept that you love him, but you have to leave him.
i think this also comes down to the fact you dont want to be lonely.
i have been in this situation with my hubby a few times over our 13 yrs.
but personally and when i have been in these lonely situations, feeling empty. you get more from being on your own. get out.
yes ok u have health probs. but so do lots of ppl.
try and pick yourself up and get an interest that works around your ailments. it might actually help you recover.
but then im a strong person and i like my own company.
i know this is not everybody. but id certainly rather worry about myself, than pick up after someone, who gives nothing back.
i have actually chosen to be on my own in those situations.

07-29-2008, 04:48 PM	#2 (permalink)
justean Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: south wales. uk Posts: 736	Re: Some advice needed what do you want a life so empty , if your living separate lives , what difference does it make n e way. ok you love him. but sometimes you have to be strong and accept that you love him, but you have to leave him. i think this also comes down to the fact you dont want to be lonely. i have been in this situation with my hubby a few times over our 13 yrs. but personally and when i have been in these lonely situations, feeling empty. you get more from being on your own. get out. yes ok u have health probs. but so do lots of ppl. try and pick yourself up and get an interest that works around your ailments. it might actually help you recover. but then im a strong person and i like my own company. i know this is not everybody. but id certainly rather worry about myself, than pick up after someone, who gives nothing back. i have actually chosen to be on my own in those situations.