Re: First timer... Just looking for advice
The last thing I'm going to advice you .. is to pick up your HIDDEN expectations !!!!!!! wooooooooow ..what is this ?
well ... have you ever thought about your goals of marriage ...?
silly question ... it is very important question...
most of us set unrealistic expectations + did not explain his goals to others in the right way !!! it is true .. believe me ..
Now what is your goals ...in your marital life .. do you see them similar and matching to those goals for your love ...? if there is a lot of matching (Family goals , raising up children, working , hobbies , religion , sex , community , etc ...) ... then probably you can work out the communication problems with attending a course or reading books or consultation ...
GOOD LUCK
any further clarification I'm ready
Nidal
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