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blackeyedsusan37 · 07-29-2008, 04:59 PM

Even if she is not having a physical sexual relationship, what she is doing is far worse. She is lying and having an emotional affair. The emotional affairs are worse in my opinion because you can go and have sex with anyone (ok some people can but not me) but to let someone into your life and chose them over your spouse and family, that is wrong on too many different levels to count.
The bottom line is whether or not you think this behavior will continue. Meeting once or talking to someone once is ok, an "accident" if you will (to some but not in my world) but to continue it over a period of time becomes a behavior pattern. Not to mention she took the time and effort to make up these other profiles and LIE to you about her "friend". It was a deliberate act of deception. SHE is chosing to do these things to you.
On the other hand, is there a possibility that a friend is actually using her as a front. If this is her story and it is true, she should be able to tell you who the friend is and you can verify it.
DO NOT LET YOURSELF BE PLAYED. Good luck (I was a master manipulater and lyer so I know what can be done).

07-29-2008, 04:59 PM	#7 (permalink)
blackeyedsusan37 Registered User Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Southern Maryland Posts: 19	Re: Wife pretending to be someone else online Even if she is not having a physical sexual relationship, what she is doing is far worse. She is lying and having an emotional affair. The emotional affairs are worse in my opinion because you can go and have sex with anyone (ok some people can but not me) but to let someone into your life and chose them over your spouse and family, that is wrong on too many different levels to count. The bottom line is whether or not you think this behavior will continue. Meeting once or talking to someone once is ok, an "accident" if you will (to some but not in my world) but to continue it over a period of time becomes a *behavior pattern*. Not to mention she took the time and effort to make up these other profiles and LIE to you about her "friend". It was a deliberate act of deception. SHE is chosing to do these things to you. On the other hand, is there a possibility that a friend is actually using her as a front. If this is her story and it is true, she should be able to tell you who the friend is and you can verify it. DO NOT LET YOURSELF BE PLAYED. Good luck (I was a master manipulater and lyer so I know what can be done).