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ljtseng · 07-30-2008, 06:16 AM

When my husband wasnt showing me any physical attention i tried to make him by pushing the issue by talking it to death and trying to turn him on. all this ended up doing was making him resent me and humiliating myself.

so as hard as it was i just backed off. at first it crushed my self esteem, left me lonely, and thinking of an affair. i was so frustrated and angry because i thought this just wasnt fair. But two years later and its not that big of a deal to me anymore. i do other things like workout a lot (lowers libido), find new hobbies, and take care of my appearance. Ironically, now that i'm not that interested, he's very interested.

07-30-2008, 06:16 AM	#2 (permalink)
ljtseng Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 951	Re: Things going ok, still no sex When my husband wasnt showing me any physical attention i tried to make him by pushing the issue by talking it to death and trying to turn him on. all this ended up doing was making him resent me and humiliating myself. so as hard as it was i just backed off. at first it crushed my self esteem, left me lonely, and thinking of an affair. i was so frustrated and angry because i thought this just wasnt fair. But two years later and its not that big of a deal to me anymore. i do other things like workout a lot (lowers libido), find new hobbies, and take care of my appearance. Ironically, now that i'm not that interested, he's very interested.