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ljtseng · 07-30-2008, 09:03 AM

if you do decide to stay with him let me tell you its painful-for a long time. my husband is not really attracted to me either. its getting better but it was really bad for awhile. anyway the point is if you decide to stay you have to decide not to run into someone else's arms every time things get hard. its likely your husband will not change for a long time and it'll take a lot of work on both your parts, but if you go outside your marriage for the support, it can never work.

if you decide your not up for the painful ride, then it is best to go your separate ways before things get ugly.

07-30-2008, 09:03 AM	#2 (permalink)
ljtseng Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 951	Re: Is seperation the answer? if you do decide to stay with him let me tell you its painful-for a long time. my husband is not really attracted to me either. its getting better but it was really bad for awhile. anyway the point is if you decide to stay you have to decide not to run into someone else's arms every time things get hard. its likely your husband will not change for a long time and it'll take a lot of work on both your parts, but if you go outside your marriage for the support, it can never work. if you decide your not up for the painful ride, then it is best to go your separate ways before things get ugly.