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justean · 07-30-2008, 10:04 AM

i maintain myself quite well and this makes a difference with us.
i have a high sex drive and so did my hubby until he started taking medication.
im not bothered about who initiates.
but i find i push the issue and i usually get what i want , and yes we both enjoy it.
ok very rarely i get the odd no, but usually when hubby really , really tired.
start with foreplay ,kissing.
you seem to have the opportunity soon, so take it then. why dont you both discuss staying overnight as u havent got the children.
im going to be honest i wouldnt try and lower your libido. you are what you are.

07-30-2008, 10:04 AM	#3 (permalink)
justean Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: south wales. uk Posts: 736	Re: Things going ok, still no sex i maintain myself quite well and this makes a difference with us. i have a high sex drive and so did my hubby until he started taking medication. im not bothered about who initiates. but i find i push the issue and i usually get what i want , and yes we both enjoy it. ok very rarely i get the odd no, but usually when hubby really , really tired. start with foreplay ,kissing. you seem to have the opportunity soon, so take it then. why dont you both discuss staying overnight as u havent got the children. im going to be honest i wouldnt try and lower your libido. you are what you are.