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Originally Posted by Amplexor
After all he’s done and you still worry about hurting him??? What about what he’s done to you? Sounds like he is a walking lie. Are you staying out of loyalty, for the kids or for financial reasons. You have accepted you don’t want to live your life out this way so begin to discuss this with your counselor If he won’t make a change then you will need to. The relationship started as a lie and has continued on that way. He is a user and you deserve better. Sorry to be so blunt but I can’t see any reason for you to stay in this relationship.
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I know, pathetic isn't it? I think that over the years, I kept burying what happened and pretending things were fine.
We have not sat down and talked. In the past, I alluded to the fact that I was tired of his crap and wanted out. This was usually in the heat of a fight. I want to be able to sit down calmly and talk. I am seeing my therapist next Friday and will discuss with her as well.