| | Re: Lazy, Unmotivated Wife
Ok, I read this book not too long ago called the 5 love languages. Reading your post you and her fit right smack into the book. To you providing for the family and being a family man is how you show love, but how you feel loved is by her doing things not because she has to but because she cares enough too. Her on the other hand doesnt seem to be motivated or understand that this is what makes you feel loved and respected because she doesnt see love the same way. She is probably one that wants to hear positive words and words of praise for the things she has and does do. If you both could understand what these things are then you can learn to work with them and most likely you will come home to a cleaner house and dinner cooked and a much happier wife.