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CaryLeb · 07-31-2008, 02:49 AM

Hello LJ,

I think that like most women you are trying to beat him to the punch. Have you ever heard the saying "expect the worse and hope the best?" I think that psychology we expect the worse by preparing ourselves for them to end the relationship but deep down inside hope(pray) that will not go that far. As much as I hate to admit it, this is an insecurity that many of us live with.
The flip side to that is to think positively, and live in the moment. You can spend your relationship worrying about when its going to end or you can enjoy all of the years that you have spent together and look forward to all of the great times that await you as a family.
Men are human and they will look at other women the same way we look at good looking men, what makes it fun is when you can share the moment lightheartly.
Hope this helps.....even if it is just a little.

07-31-2008, 02:49 AM	#6 (permalink)
CaryLeb Registered User Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: NYC Posts: 11	Re: Am I really this screwed up? Hello LJ, I think that like most women you are trying to beat him to the punch. Have you ever heard the saying "expect the worse and hope the best?" I think that psychology we expect the worse by preparing ourselves for them to end the relationship but deep down inside hope(pray) that will not go that far. As much as I hate to admit it, this is an insecurity that many of us live with. The flip side to that is to think positively, and live in the moment. You can spend your relationship worrying about when its going to end or you can enjoy all of the years that you have spent together and look forward to all of the great times that await you as a family. Men are human and they will look at other women the same way we look at good looking men, what makes it fun is when you can share the moment lightheartly. Hope this helps.....even if it is just a little.