CaryLeb

First and foremost thank you for serving our country.
I have read through several of the responses that you have received and agree with all of them.
Just know that there are good stresses that give people a sense of fulfillment and that perhaps this course that your wife is taking is solely for self-gratification which is exactly what she needs right now. She needs to know and feel that she is more then a wonderful wife and mother....she needs that sense of acomplishment.
Only another soldier can really empathize with what you went through during your tour. The same is said for your wife....give her space to make her own decisions, she will know when to slow down, and continue giving her as much support as you have been.