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Originally Posted by BoldyInept
- Will this last?
- Can someone "re-relegate" someone to the status of "friend" after they have seen that person in a more romantic light?
- Is it possible that deep inside she is still in love with him, but is in a period of denial about that because she is feeling better about me?
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First of all i think what you did to save your marriage was nothing short of a miracle. Congratulations for being willing to change!
-when you ask will it last do you mean her relationship with him, or her feelings for you?
-i definitely think someone can downgrade their feelings for another person. love is a choice and can be taken away.
-she could be in denial about her feelings for that guy. like any relationship, it takes time to get over one's feelings for another. its a process and not just an automatic decision. I dont think its healthy for your relationship that she keep in contact with him, business or not, but i also think its a process she has to go through. Maybe denial is just one of the steps for her to completely severe her feelings for him.
Im just really impressed with how you handled her infidelity.