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lonelyheart · 07-31-2008, 08:51 AM

Chris, I think a little flirting is good for boosting one's ego. You mentioned that you also do it. I think when you know your limits and respect each other then a little flirting is harmless. But touching and grabbing is a whole different issue.You also mentioned that he was a flirt from the start. I learned in life that people don't really totally change. There are some things that we observe at the start of a relationship that we ignore hoping they will change. There are always signs when we start a new relationship. I am going through a tough time with my marriage, but I somehow feel if i was observant enough, i would have recognized the problem then. But since you are in already, i think you have to sit and decide if you want to live with his flirting and grabbing the rest of your life, if he doesn't change that is.

07-31-2008, 08:51 AM	#6 (permalink)
lonelyheart Registered User Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 16	Re: Husband doesn't show me attention but openly flirts with other women Chris, I think a little flirting is good for boosting one's ego. You mentioned that you also do it. I think when you know your limits and respect each other then a little flirting is harmless. But touching and grabbing is a whole different issue.You also mentioned that he was a flirt from the start. I learned in life that people don't really totally change. There are some things that we observe at the start of a relationship that we ignore hoping they will change. There are always signs when we start a new relationship. I am going through a tough time with my marriage, but I somehow feel if i was observant enough, i would have recognized the problem then. But since you are in already, i think you have to sit and decide if you want to live with his flirting and grabbing the rest of your life, if he doesn't change that is.