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ljtseng · 07-31-2008, 08:57 AM

i remember a dr.phil show about women who have been cheated on. He said that they go through cycles. one of the cycles is revenge. maybe she's testing you. maybe she wants to see what you'll take to see if you really love her and are willing to work it out...i dunno. when she says things like you'll never change and you'll never be patient enough to....maybe she's actually asking you in a round about way. if someone really feels the situation is hopeless they dont talk about it. i really dont think she's completely given up. i think its a combination of revenge and testing you in a way that doesnt make her vulnerable.

07-31-2008, 08:57 AM	#4 (permalink)
ljtseng Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 965	Re: hopeless or not i remember a dr.phil show about women who have been cheated on. He said that they go through cycles. one of the cycles is revenge. maybe she's testing you. maybe she wants to see what you'll take to see if you really love her and are willing to work it out...i dunno. when she says things like you'll never change and you'll never be patient enough to....maybe she's actually asking you in a round about way. if someone really feels the situation is hopeless they dont talk about it. i really dont think she's completely given up. i think its a combination of revenge and testing you in a way that doesnt make her vulnerable.