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Old 07-31-2008, 03:30 PM   #14 (permalink)
justean
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Default Re: Sharing the kids?

i have been through this very recently.
my hubby and i got our children together, they knew why we were splitting up , so they could understand why we were ,the way we were with our emotions.
we allowed our children to decide what they wanted.
from the situation, we had better supportive children who understood and were given decisions in what was better for their lives.
my separated ex at the time even looked after our children when i went out.
we r back together now and working through our issues on a day to day basis.
this came through not rowing, talking , being amicable and wanting to not give up on our marriage.
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