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Old 02-05-2010, 12:52 AM   #3 (permalink)
Believe
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First of all, do not give up! Even though you have high doubts things will change, well guess what? Things can change. People and situations can change drastically if you put in the work. You should try therapy first. Find a really good pro-marriage therapist in your area. Read over some of the posts from other people on here who were the ones left behind. I think they might help open your eyes to how serious this is. How much pain it causes and distruction of families. I agree with Ocean2breeze, pregancy takes alot out of women. I know I have been there twice. Your baby is only 7 months old and along with your wife's hormones and lack of sleep, this is a huge adjustment to get use to. There is now someone else in the house and this little someone demands all your time and attention. Please don't give up, think of your little baby boy. The best gift a father can give his child, is love his mother.
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