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justean · 08-02-2008, 01:26 PM

has he given you a reason for not wanting a divorce??????
sounds like he has all the good in you, but he simply does not appreciate you.
what i mean by that is he knows exactly where his bread is buttered.
i think you just have to remind him how you feel.
personally his personality and jekyl and hyde character, wil eventually in the long run, make you feel more down in the future and more insecure. less and less loved.
i really do feel for you.
but its really what you want to keep putting up with in your life.
personally i went down the psychological," your fat , your ugly, and who the f--k would ever want you" path with my ex hubby.
it took me a long time to actually say im attractive ( 10 yrs).
but when he says things like that to you, it comes from his own insecurities.
i promise u it wil never change. it wil only go down hill more with him.

08-02-2008, 01:26 PM	#2 (permalink)
justean Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: south wales. uk Posts: 741	Re: Is this really a weight problem? has he given you a reason for not wanting a divorce?????? sounds like he has all the good in you, but he simply does not appreciate you. what i mean by that is he knows exactly where his bread is buttered. i think you just have to remind him how you feel. personally his personality and jekyl and hyde character, wil eventually in the long run, make you feel more down in the future and more insecure. less and less loved. i really do feel for you. but its really what you want to keep putting up with in your life. personally i went down the psychological," your fat , your ugly, and who the f--k would ever want you" path with my ex hubby. it took me a long time to actually say im attractive ( 10 yrs). but when he says things like that to you, it comes from his own insecurities. i promise u it wil never change. it wil only go down hill more with him.