lovemywife

I seem to have typed my explanation wrong , please note , that I am not at all a violent person , I don't fight with anyone and havent for many many years , I'm not pointing blame whatsoever , but she is the one that gets violent with every major fight , not often at all ( twice in 7 years ) , if holding her down to stop any attacks is violent then yes I'm guilty .

I did not know the phone deal was a criminal offence .. jeez I could see it being one if I had smacked her with it , but that .. will NEVER happen ! .
she was in a violent relastionship so this may explain her actions if she feels that she's going into a place she has been before ( fighting with her abusive ex )
however I myself am not violent , I get angry and and start the putdowns only after I have been put down , it's wrong but uncontrollable at that point in anger .. but never , never violent ..

when your wife is tossing objects and coming at you with her fists ready .. yes .. I am gonna stop her , holding her down may be wrong , but hardly violent imo
yeah sorry about that confusing post , everything is just coming at me all at once