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Decovi · 08-03-2008, 05:48 AM

Ok this is a new one... my husband is perfect in every way. Loyal, hardworking, trustworthy, successful, and an excellent parent to our 3 children. We've been married 14 years and I stay home & do & get whatever I want. So whats the problem?... He pays no attention to me! He tries & wants to, but it doesn't seem to be in his DNA. I get an unbelievable amount of attention from just about everybody else, but not my husband. I could walk into a room with a red Ronald McDonald wig & my two front teeth blacked out & he wouldn't notice! I'm constantly being told how funny, lighthearted, optomistic I am, but not from him (the only person I'd wish would notice) I am miserable. It feels to me like he's condescending and dismissive. I feel unloved & ignored. Oh, & I want sex with him all the time. He's the one who's too tired or has a headache! I don't want anyone else & I know the grass is not greener. I don't like being married, I'm not interested in another relationship. What the hell do I do??? I have it all but really have nothing.

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Decovi Registered User Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 1	Too Perfect? Ok this is a new one... my husband is perfect in every way. Loyal, hardworking, trustworthy, successful, and an excellent parent to our 3 children. We've been married 14 years and I stay home & do & get whatever I want. So whats the problem?... He pays no attention to me! He tries & wants to, but it doesn't seem to be in his DNA. I get an unbelievable amount of attention from just about everybody else, but not my husband. I could walk into a room with a red Ronald McDonald wig & my two front teeth blacked out & he wouldn't notice! I'm constantly being told how funny, lighthearted, optomistic I am, but not from him (the only person I'd wish would notice) I am miserable. It feels to me like he's condescending and dismissive. I feel unloved & ignored. Oh, & I want sex with him all the time. He's the one who's too tired or has a headache! I don't want anyone else & I know the grass is not greener. I don't like being married, I'm not interested in another relationship. What the hell do I do??? I have it all but really have nothing.