klgray

Thank you all for your comments. This is a tough situation, I do not at all excuse my behavior, I would have cheated on myself as well along time ago, if she would have done that I would have forgiven her w/ no problem. But in this case, this is, in fact, a pill that is tough to take...
The reason this is sooo hard is b/c it is a person from her past that she has a lot of history w/ and helped shape her teenage years. I really feel that this is it for me, I have a creditable threat that could possibly end this for me... Do I have to wait to see how things play out for her and give her time to decide if she wants to be w/ me or him?