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Blanca · 08-03-2008, 10:48 PM

Of course i dont know that much about your situation but from what you've written it doesnt sound to me like he wants out. It sounds like he wants to be able to spend money however he wants without being questioned about it. Sounds like he's just feeling controlled.

maybe the goal for your husband to own his own business was free rein on financial success, and the liberty to do what he wants with the assets.

I can understand why you're upset. It does sound like he's being unfeeling in how he's treating your investment in the business. Have you sat down and talked to him about how he's treating you? How you are upset because you gave up your job for him and his business? That you feel he's being insensitive to ask you to cut your own pay and perform these other tasks? he might just be so single minded right now that he's not even aware of how this is affecting you.

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Blanca Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 4,050	Re: Is this the beginning of the end? Of course i dont know that much about your situation but from what you've written it doesnt sound to me like he wants out. It sounds like he wants to be able to spend money however he wants without being questioned about it. Sounds like he's just feeling controlled. maybe the goal for your husband to own his own business was free rein on financial success, and the liberty to do what he wants with the assets. I can understand why you're upset. It does sound like he's being unfeeling in how he's treating your investment in the business. Have you sat down and talked to him about how he's treating you? How you are upset because you gave up your job for him and his business? That you feel he's being insensitive to ask you to cut your own pay and perform these other tasks? he might just be so single minded right now that he's not even aware of how this is affecting you.