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swedish · 08-04-2008, 11:42 AM

Aug 15 is not too far away. I'd wait until you get your own place and see how things go from there. It's very unsettling as a newly married couple to be living in close quarters with others.

When you do get your own place, pick out things together...whether it's towels, pictures, furniture. I would think the more decisions you make together, the more you will feel like husband/wife forging ahead together and the way to make him feel less 'controlled' is for you to ask him his opinion first.

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swedish Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Near Chicago Posts: 1,399	Re: married to fast... Aug 15 is not too far away. I'd wait until you get your own place and see how things go from there. It's very unsettling as a newly married couple to be living in close quarters with others. When you do get your own place, pick out things together...whether it's towels, pictures, furniture. I would think the more decisions you make together, the more you will feel like husband/wife forging ahead together and the way to make him feel less 'controlled' is for you to ask him his opinion first.