stumped

I have read everyones responses quite a few times I might add and this is WHY I am moving out.....

First the mortgage is in his name (my name is on the deed so he cant do anything without me) but the mortgage is attached to his credit not mine. Second I can not afford the house on my own. So if I made him move out and pay for what I couldnt afford then he wouldnt be able to afford a place for himself. I know I shouldnt feel like that is my problem but I am not at the point where I can be a cold hearted *****.

As far as me moving out and giving him what he wants.....whose to say he isnt entitled to what he wants and whats going to make him happy? According to him I dont make him happy...does it hurt me to know that absolutely.....but I am already miserable because of it. He has told me that is is over and he wants a divorce....Im not really sure what else I can do.
It hurts me everyday that I have to see him and know that he is going to bed in the other room when our interaction together in the house is "cordial and almost normal". We dont fight, we still talk all the time, we still get along and I think the only way for me to start moving on or at least give him the wake up call the he needs is for me not to be around. There is that saying "you dont know what you have until its gone" and maybe thats what he needs....maybe he will realize the mistake he made...the only thing I can hope for is that when he does realize the mistake he made (and I really believe he will realize it) that its not to late. Because I can not continue to wait on him to figure out what it is that he does or doesnt want.